Sex is great! It may be terrific and satisfying, even adventurous. Unfortunately, more often it happens that it isn't as good as the internet and others say. What are the top 10 facts everyone should know and respect?
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What are the most important sex facts?
Just check what about sex is important for everyone and what must be always respected:
- Women must go to the toilet after each sex - if there was any type of penetration, women must go to the toilet. There is still time for hugs and cuddling after that. But emptying the bladder prevents the urinary tract infection. Has ever anybody told you that? It's the thing that every mum should tell their children who have vagina. It should be your habit or you will have problems with your urinary tract. That's the fact and it always works like this.
- Even if your friends have had sex for the first time, it doesn't mean that you have to do it too as soon as it's possible - especially when we are teenagers, we may feel pressure to "lose our virginity". You shouldn't give up on it. Each of us is ready for intercourse at a different time and there are no universal rules here. You can't get under any pressure! It may be only your decision.
- Masturbation is okay - you don't get blind because of masturbation or anything like this. What's more, it's a natural need of people of all ages and sexes. For many people it's also very helpful in learning of their bodies and sexual needs. But remember also that if you don't like or don't need it - it's also okay. And you can learn about your needs in many different ways too.
- The genitals are diverse - there aren't 2 the same genitals and it concerns all sexes. They vary in shape, size and color, and it's normal! Definitely not all genitals look like the ones in porn movies.
- There is female ejaculation - squirt isn't only a myth. Female ejaculation accompanies orgasms but occurs in a small number of women. Of course, there are many tips that are helpful in learning it.
- Size does matter, but for different reasons than you can think - "Size matters" - we hear it over and over again. This is true. But the point is that our anatomy is different. Therefore, the most important thing is to synchronize the size of the genitals between partners. Then sex may be just perfect.
- Orgasm does not mean love or even consent - there are cases when victims of sexual violence have orgasms during a crime. This is a biological reaction only and means nothing. An orgasm is an orgasm. It does not have to be related to love or consent.
- Virginity is a social construct only - the hymen does not exist as it is spoken of. Most women will never bleed the first time they have sex. The membrane is elastic - like a hairband. Losing your virginity can mean many different things, not necessarily penetration.
- Saying "no" is okay. Saying "yes" is fine. Asking what someone wants and saying what you like is okay - CONSENT is the basis of any relationship!
- As a woman, you may not have orgasm during penetration and that's okay - women often don't orgasm during penetration, but it's worth experimenting and looking for a position that's right for you. What's important, even sex without orgasm may be satysfying.
Other things that combine science and pleasure and they can make you think about your sexual life
Of course, it’s hard to focus only on top 10 facts because there are also other important things that concern sex. So get the bigger portion of things to consider and remember that it’s important to getting knowledge about sex itself - based on "technical" aspects and your own experience too:
- researchers say a vigorous sex sesh can help you burn up to 5 calories per minute
- everyone’s libido varies so there’s no "normal" you should be comparing yourself to but you can be too horny and need a professional help if sex is everything you think about and you get distracted because of it even during your normal everyday routine
- almost everything can affect on your libido level and if your sex drive is in a state of fluctuation, from zero one minute to 100 the next, don’t panic. You can restart it
- having sex is shown to enhance affection levels, which, in turn, increases the overall frequency of sexual activity. It means that the more sex the more love is between you and your partner!
- you always sleep better after having an orgasm
- sex can boost your body and head with good hormones and even vitamines!
- the more you care about your body with a diet and exercising, the better your sex and a level of pleasure is
- you can learn by sexperience because sex can boost your recall skills and activate the area of your brain associated with learning
- sex helps to make a level of stress lower
- nearly 10 percent of all dreams include sex in various forms
- women get erections too - clitoris is made up of the same spongy erectile tissue as the penis, which expands and engorges with blood when aroused and it gets bigger
- 3 percent of people have no sexual fantasies at all
- the clitoris is way bigger than you think it is - in addition to the part of the clitoris you can see, there’s a much larger part underneath the skin that also engorges with arousal. When a woman is aroused, the vaginal canal also lengthens as the uterus is pulled further upward into the body, the angle often changing as well. It means that the more aroused a woman is the better sex may be
- a big penis won’t “stretch out” or ruin a vagina because the vaginal canal is a muscle that stretches and comes back to its normal size
- the G-spot exists but its shape isn't like to a point
- there is a lot of sex in mainstream but people have it less of often now
- also men can orgasm without ejaculating - it isn’t any rule that men always have orgasms with ejaculation (it’s a bullshit like the fact that women should always have orgasm while having sex)
- too much masturbation can make sex with a partner more difficult
- 1 in 6 women have never had an orgasm
- toys aren’t only for kids and the most effective toy is your voice
- sex theraphy can really help if you have any problems
- the pullout method really doesn’t work
- penis may get broken
- you should always have a lube at your hand
- sex should never hurt.
Now you have some things to take into consideration. Stay with them for a while. Sex is great but there are rules to follow and facts to remember. Only then everything is satisfying enough.
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