How to Prepare for Anal Sex? Is it possible to relax enough to feel only pleasure having it? In this article you’ll know all important details of things such as anal stretching, anal training and various relaxation methods.
Know all things that are important - and it doesn’t matter if you prepare for your first anal sex or you just want to make it more pleasurable.
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Some basic details of anal sex before you start your training
A basic meaning of anal sex is insertion of penis to anus pr anus and rectum but this type of penetration has also more types. Other forms include using fingers, sex toys, tongue. Anal sex is quite controversial but it's a normal form of sexual activity, popular both for homosexual and heterosexual relations.
As always, it must be only your private decision if you want to try it or not. For sure you should be aware of some basic things that are connected with this sort of sexual activity. Anal may be great and very pleasurable but you must learn some things about it first.
What does anal sex feel like?
Anal sex isn't the same for everybody. It's connected with a fact that may be enjoyed both with men and women and their anatomy differs each other.
| Anal sex feelings | |
|---|---|
| When you have a prostate | When you don’t have a prostate |
| The prostate's job is to produce semen but this small gland has also a lot of sensitive nerves that may be stimulated during anal sex (but remember that the prostate may be massaged also during masturbation or having vaginal sex too). But for sure if you have the prostate, it's different to have anal sex than have it being an owner of vagina. | The prostate isn't necessary to have satisfactional anal sex. Anus has also a lot of nerve endings. What's more, having the vagina, you have also so-called "G spot" that may be stimulated via the anus. |
When the penetration starts, everybody may feel like they want to go pooping. But it’s only the feeling that is connected with a fact that having anal sex you use the same anus muscles as you use in toilet.
Is it possible to have prostate orgasm?
Prostate orgasms are a fact. They cause feelings of great pleasure and they are described as intense waves of deep pleasure that may be felt in the whole body. This type of orgasm may cause also a reaction called "milking" - some milky fluid from the penis but it's completely normal.
Is anal orgasm available to have?
Everybody with penetrated anus may have an anal orgasm. For women it's useful to stimulate the G spot in the vagina through stimulating anus the same time.
Anus orgasm may be that intense as other ones. But it's advised to have special anal training to learn something more about this place in your butt.
Advantages of anal sex
Anal sex has some positive sides you should know:
- anal orgasms are intense and connected with a lot of pleasure
- it’s very exciting experience to have anal because it’s still considered as taboo by some people
- it’s a way to explore new area of body and new types of pleasure
- it may be connected with using new sex toys by you
- it builds extremely high intimacy with a partner
- prostate stimulation can treat and prevent erectile dysfunction (ED), prostatitis, and painful ejaculation
- it has also all pluses connected with having sexual activity such as happier mood, lower risk of heart diseases, boosted libido, reduced inflammation, pain reduction, improved circulation, better skin and many more because se xhas a lot of good sides.
Disadvantages and dangers of anal sex
It’s advised to be prepared to anal sex and do it fragile because anus is more delicate than vagina or mouth:
- anus doesn't have any natural lubrication so penetration without lube may lead to pain and bleeding
- thinner tissue may be wounded and it causes easier infections, viruses, or bacteria transferring
- anus must be relaxed to penetrate it with comfort
- anal may be a little uncomfortable if you don’t have enough experience
- anal can irritate existing hemorrhoids (based on various examinations, there are different opinion if anal sex can cause new hemorrhoids)
- it's very uncommon, but it’s possible that anal penetration can puncture a hole in your colon.
Doing anal properly may prevent you from harmful and uncomfortable disadvantages so it’s advised to know how to do anal training before you have anal sex.
What is anal sphincter?
Anal sphincter is a group of muscles at the end of the rectum. The sphincter is divided into 2 main parts - one is internal and one is external.
Sphincter muscles are important for our everyday life but they may be also used to have some pleasure. Anal penetration is possible for every gender because everybody of us have the sphincter. How to stretch anal to make having sex more comfortable and connected with pleasure?
What is anal stretching?
The anal stretching is a group of exercises and behaviours that is practised to make your anus widen enough to have safe and pleasurable penetration. What’s important, anal stretching must be made before each anal sex because anus always goes back to its natural size.
It means that it’s impossible to make anus bigger for the rest of your life. But remember that anus may be damaged because it’s very fragile. So it’s important to know right techniques of anal training.
How to stretch anal?
How to Do Anal Training? There are some things that are connected with doing the right anal training. Remember that anus needs to be trained with care and attention:
- try sacral massage just above the butt crack. It allows to get relaxed before other actions
- massage and warm up the anus before entering anything inside, anus is like a door
- stimulate around the anal opening
- use a heated lubricant
- get something in there, it may be your finger or toys.
You need experience to make your anal sphincter stretched. But the more practising, the better effects! Avoid rapid moves and sharp things, make your nails shorter if you use your fingers. And give yourself as much time as you need. Even anal stretching may be a source of pleasure, especially when you use additional stimulation. Yes, stimulate other parts of your body causes higher level of relaxation - and it helps to stretch your anus too.
Check how to relax for anal sex
You can’t be afraid if you want to have anal sex. Fear means lack of pleasure and problems to insert anything into your anus. And then it means pain, blood and bad memories. Anal sex may be extremely pleasurable but you must learn how to have it.
Relax before having sex means stretching your anus - if penis, finger or toy is insert into it without problems, you start feeling less nervous. And the less nervous you are the higher your pleasure is. Being calm mean that your muscles are looser, when you get nervous, you can feel only pain and discomfort - and because of this you can start to hate anal sex before you know it better.
First of all, learn how to make your anal training. It’ll help you for sure to feel relaxed before having anal sex.
How to prepare for anal sex?
Relax and prepare yourself before every anal sex. You can do it solo or with your partner.
Anal sex is like any other sexual activity - if you know how to do it, it’s safe and connected with having pleasure. But you must have the right attitude towards anal and your anus. Treat your anus like your friend as you tread other part of your body connected with pleasure. Care about it like about your penis or vagina.
If you have any health problems or you feel stressed, don’t start any anal penetration. It may cause pain and embarrassment.
Some things before you start relax for anal sex
There are some things that are that important as you can’t forget about them:
- if you relax your anus, it won’t stay with that bigger size forever
- be generous with lube, it’s very important
- minor discomfort at the beginning is normal but you shouldn’t feel pain or bleed too much
- always remember about cleanup
- sterilize your toys.
Having the anal training and relaxing your anus remember that you can feel what is good and what is bad for you. Don’t go too fast with anything, give yourself as much time as you need for each step. And train regularly! The more experience you have, the better your anal sex will be!
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