What is dry orgasm? It may have 2 meanings - one is connected with healthy problems but there is also the second one and it tells about having orgasm without ejaculating. In the article we’re going to focus on intentional non-ejaculatory orgasms.

Non-ejaculatory orgasms are useful if you want to make semen holded (to have bigger cum shots, for instance). How to cum more? Click in the question and read something about techniques connected with having bigger cum shots. Because here we’re focusing on other things - male multiple orgasms and having pleasure without wasting your semen.

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How can men orgasm without ejaculating?


Are you able you make multiple orgasms reality? Yes, you are. Most of all it needs practicing. And in this situation it means masturbation with the purpose to learn more about your body. First you must understand that orgasm happens in the brain, while ejaculation happens in genitals. And your aim will be to learn how to separate these 2 things.

What do you need for that?

  • time for sure because you must practise to get some experience
  • strong PC muscles
  • understanding of your arousal levels
  • techniques that work
  • some patience.

4 types of male multiple orgasms


The base of all male orgasms is the "normal" one with cumming out. It's experienced by almost each man and it's called an ejaculatory orgasm (EO). It may be extended and intensified but it's limited - you can have one of those and you must wait a while to get enough rest to be able to have another one. Not every man knows it but it isn't the only orgasm option guys can have because there also are:

  • non-ejaculatory orgasms (NEOs)
  • prolonged or peaking non-ejaculatory orgasms (PNEOs)
  • prostate orgasms (POs).

What special features have the rest three ones? They are more intense (all of them). What's more, you can orgasm again and again without having a refractory period. And at last - they can be very looong, even several minutes long. It means you can even get tired of having orgasm like some women are.

To start learning it, you must practise solo at first. Getting skills from the scratch during sex with partner is 10 times harder. So get experience during masturbation by then use this knowledge when you aren't alone in bed.

How to have a full-body orgasm and not to ejaculate?


Before you start furter practice, first you must learn how to hold yourself longer. You should be able to not ejaculate for 10 or more minutes of constant masturbation. Without it you aren't ready to start learning next steps.

The very nex level is exercising your Kegel muscles. You’ll need to train yours until you have a vice-like grip behind your penis.

Kegel exercises
Beginners
  1. Contract your PC muscle and hold it for 3 seconds
  2. Fully relax for 3 seconds
  3. Perform a set of 30 flexes, 3 times/day with a goal to build up to 50 flexes per set
Advanced
  1. Contract your PC muscle tightly (imagine inwards and upwards) and hold it for 10 seconds
  2. Release and relax all the muscles for 10 seconds
  3. Do a set of 20 reps, 3x/day with the aim to build it up to 50 flexes per set.

Kegel muscles (PC muscles) are located right behind your balls and before your anus. You can feel them when you’re trying to prevent yourself from peeing, or when you start peeing and then try to make yourself stop. These muscles are very important to be able to hold cumming and to have non-ejaculatory orgasms.

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Learning to have non-ejaculating orgasms, you must do it every day for about 20 minutes or more. When you are able to hold yourself on your highest level (just a moment before cumming), you can start resting and don't exercise it every day.

Every time when you are about to cum, try to cool down, squeeze your PC muscles HARD, think about other things and breath. And repeat the process several times. You have to learn to feel how close you are to ejaculation to be also able to separate it from having orgasm. Orgasm in your mind and body is not caused by ejaculating, they rather happen together. And you must stop this impulse.

The next step is short separating your orgasm and ejaculation. When you know you’re going to ejaculate, squeeze your PC muscle as hard as you can as if you’re doing a long Kegel hold. Then you should feel your penis twitch, swell, and the ejaculating will be delayed a second or two… but the orgasm sensation won’t. Thanks to this you feel orgasm several seconds before your ejaculation and later you'll have ejaculation plus orgasm as normal. And now you have to learn to feel only orgasm and not to cum at all.

It's the right time to get your first non-ejaculatory orgasm! Keep going with your exercises. Work yourself up to a peak, and bring yourself down. Up and down. When you are able to cum and you can feel that is the right time for that and you hit the point of no return, squeeze your PC muscles as hard as you can and stop stroking your penis. And then 3 things may happen:

  • you stop to early and end up without any orgasm - the the next time you must wait for a moment longer
  • you'll do it to late and it ends up with orgasm with ejaculation
  • you get your non-ejaculatory orgasm!

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Intensify your non-ejaculatory orgasm skills to experience even more


You must do your exercises regularly to have bigger skills and more pleasure from orgasms without ejaculating. Why? Because at the beginning they seem to be a little weird.

If you want to prolong your non-ejaculating orgasms, you can do it by having other ones one after another with only small gaps between them. It may cause almost constant feeling of being in orgasm. If you practise hard enough, you'll get the point when you're tired of having your orgasm for several minutes.

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